How To Avoid The Blame Game

So how can you avoid the blame game and actually save your relationship? There are a few tips and techniques you need to use, if you really want your relationship to succeed.

Your first step is to never speak when you are angry. You may disagree about certain things, but staying together is to find a compromise of mutual benefit, rather than endless arguments and shouting matches.

It is easy to say the worst things, in a fit of anger, that you would not say when you are calm. So, remember what your kindergarten teacher taught you, "If you can not say something nice, then do not say anything."

You only need to change it a bit. When the temperature is soaring then take a few minutes to calm down, gather your thoughts and give your partner time to gather their breath. Take a break, and relax for a few minutes. In the morning light, when all is quiet, you may think of a solution that may be of mutual benefit.

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