Monday, 27 July 2009

Better Relationships Are Your Reward For Sticking Together

Better relationships are the result from those who prepare to meet challenges in life together. In order for a relationship to last a long time, you need to be able to listen to each other, have the ability to give and take and listen to each other. You need to be soul mates. You need to be there when the other hurts. True love between soul mates helps to keep relationships together.

You may have met your sweetheart at junior college, and after a period of dating, you decided you could not spend any more time away from each other. So you decided to live together in a long lasting relationship. You may have even sealed your relationship with a wedding ceremony.

If you have ideas in your head, like you want to graduate from college and work in business, then you should do that first, before you get married. Once you have your graduation certificate and you have stability in employment, then you know you are ready to take the next step in your life and prepare for marriage.

You may find your fiance, may feel more comfortable with your relationship, if she knows you are leading a stable life with a steady income. If you decide to get married, without stability in your life, then you have already started on the backfoot and it may be difficult to maintain your marriage, if you do not have a job and you are still studying for your graduation.

Some couples are engaged for a few months or a year and then get married. There are other couples that are engaged for years, before taking the final walk down the aisle.

While the couple is engaged, there is a lot to find out about each other. You want to know what makes her tick, what she likes and dislikes. Is she a romantic, or does she take things for granted?

Knowing a lot about each other, always leads to better relationships.

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