Saturday, 26 December 2009

The Darker Side Of Internet Affairs

Internet affairs are like any other affairs outside a stable relationship. For example, it can be an affair with someone you meet online, while you are married to the mother of your children.

You may find married life rather dull and long to go back to the life before you married. After a while, you may realise the consequences of a continuing online relationships, to your marriage and family.

This is the time where you need to discuss with your wife, how you can live together as a family and as a happy couple to keep each other satisfied. You may find, you need to spend more time together, away from social pressures of living day to day.

You should be cautious, before making any wild accusations. If you have any suspicions about your spouse involved in an internet affair, then you can make quiet investigations without making unfounded allegations.

If you see your spouse spending long hours chatting online, visiting dating and relationships sites and receiving emails from people you do not know, then there may be a problem. You can make discreet inquiries, to find out if there is an inoccent explanation.

He may be chatting to his work colleagues, exchanging ideas to complete a major project. Some of the emails may be from his work colleagues, relatives and friends.

If your spouse is having an online affair, and you confront him with your evidence, he may break down and convince you that he will stop everything and give you his full attention. You may also enquire why he is looking to other people to start affairs.

Is he unhappy about certain aspects of your relationship? There may be a misunderstanding and he cannot solve these problems without chatting to others with similar problems, hoping to find a solution.

If this is the case, then you may think about having a more open relationship, where you can exchange ideas and find solutions by talking about problems before they escalate to suspicions and unfounded allegations about internet affairs.

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