It may be a marriage where the couple cannot agree on anything and are always arguing about making decisions. It may even be a couple who are looking to take the next step in their relationship, and do not wish to commit to a long term relationship.
Some people hesitate with every decision they make and think about all the possibilities of how things can go wrong with horrible outcomes. If these people continue to dwell on the bad outcomes, then they will never make a decision on anything.
Life is about taking risks, having a hunch, feeling it in your bones. Once a decision is made, then you do not need to listen to any fear of commitment.
They may have felt hurt in a previous relationship and do not want to go through the same process all over again with this relationship. You may look to give them assurance that you want to make every effort to maintain your relationship.
If two people work together to keep a relationship going, then nothing will stand in your way, as you will always seek solutions to eradicate stumbling blocks.
If you truly believe in each other, then you will work on this relationship. One way to find solutions, is to talk openly about everything, for hours on end, uninterrupted by phones, television and other bad news. Just lock the door, pretend no one is home and send all calls to voicemail.
This way you will know, if you are truly for each and will overcome any fear of commitment.
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